There is this friend of mine, who wants to write her story about her love for a certain guy. A story of being a friendzone. I don't know much of it. Never been in that situation. I just witness once, and it was hers.
She told me to write an intro to her story.. so here it goes...
“Ordinary”—as the word explains it, was me. A typical girl you would see around. Simple as I can be. No pretentions, no lies, and envied by a lot of girls. WHY? Because I was able to get close to the guys they like. But what they didn’t know that no matter how close I get to them, I would always be on the FRIENDZONE. Watch them go one by one leaving me on that same spot where it all started. Yeah, been in love once, twice, actually I lost count but at the end I just stare at them from the back with those girls that once envied me.
I don’t know much of love. I don’t know the rules but still risks playing. I tried a couple of times and still was trying. Why should I always hear them complain and should I really try to understand--making me so numb and dumb.
And even up to this very point of my life, I still am on that zone. Trying to move on the next level but was afraid that if I did, even friendship would be gone. Should I really be happy having someone I love as a friend, a best friend perhaps or be sad because that’s all we could ever be.
Difficult, yes it is. But the good thing is that though you're in one, the friendship would always be forever. Her story was saddening but still hasn't ended yet. Well just as I remember, I've been in a friend zone, I could go to a in-a-relationship level but wishes to stay on the friend zone. Simply because I put my mind on top of my heart. Were too young that time, don't know much of what will happen in the future, but somehow I believe that someday if we meet again...
They we could try to be MORE THAN FRIENDS.
They we could try to be MORE THAN FRIENDS.